Open Question: White Goth Wedding...?

I've always had a thing for the dramatic and after I chose my dress and my girl's chose their dresses, I realized the contrast between my stark white and their jewel tone indigo and bordeaux. So I began to read several articles on Billy Martin's wedding and after listening to the score on Corpse Bride decided that I wanted my wedding to have an dark, ethereal feel to it. The Maid of Honor: http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h128/LaViollete/susy-1.jpg The Bridesmaids: http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h128/LaViollete/sujeiry-1.jpg http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h128/LaViollete/Merari.jpg http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h128/LaViollete/MAry-1.jpg {If their chest are bare they will have an amulet necklace and all parties will have jeweled chandelier earrings} such as these fom 1928 Jewelry {these are also the colors}: http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h128/LaViollete/df84_1.jpg http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h128/LaViollete/9697_2-1.jpg And my dress and veil: http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h128/LaViollete/bcv1.jpg http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h128/LaViollete/bride.jpg http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h128/LaViollete/trans5.jpg I'm detailed I know!! I plan to do most things myself. This is the church and the ceremony area {Both already finished but no new pics, sorry}: http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h128/LaViollete/church1.jpg I didn't take a picture of the reception area but its white with tulle and christmas lights hanging fom the cieling, we can dim the lights and the tables are round. So after this long introduction, now to my question. I would like an ethereal ceremony and reception with everything white. I am planning to use music scores by some Tim Burton movie's and the Twilight score including Bella's lullaby as well as classical music played throughout the reception. I just need some advice and tips on how to incorporate a ghostly, dark mood into the pure white wedding and reception since I want no color except for the bridesmaids. I would appreciate answers and just in case I am in no way goth nor am pretending to be, I'm just an overly dramatic, over the top young woman who wants to have a beautiful wedding. Thanks in advance for your kind answers...