Open Question: the perfect college for me?

im a senior in high school in nyc and im applying for college next yr but am very unsure of where i want to go exactly. i prefer schools in new england and the mid atlantic for the most part. I want to major in either English, govt, econ, politics or womens studies in college and then definitely go to a high ranking law school after. I want to go to a place where i can make long lasting friendships with ppl i can rly connect with. My friends now consider me very preppy/sophisticated and intellectual but not in a snobby way........im kind of the skinny jeans/flats/pearls/pashmina type of girl. I am veryy open to the idea of going to a womens college bcuz i want to work in international womens rights law but at the same time am looking for close-knit strong liberal arts schools i dont like schools with a strong emphasis on partying/drinking to have a good time and sororities/fraternities I wud like to be a part of school with a wide range of activities from school newspaper, to dance, religious services, volunteering/charity organizations and acapella/choir in terms of dating, im not exactly looking for a new relationship hence i dont mind the idea of a womens college (not that im a lesbian or bisexual either) i try to live my life with some christian values but at the same time i am open to different perspectives and i want to learn more bout diff. perspectives from around the world as well. i love classical music and jazz, good books, dining out and inspiring films. i believe in global citizenship and being good to the ones i love. my favorite activities include playing tennis, dancing the ballet, shopping, and having conversations with my best friends. i want to go to a school where i can find ppl who like those things too lastly, i wud like to go to a school with a sort of well known name and good financial aid and study abroad programs wut college (or colleges wud i fit in best)? thanks! wud i fit at bates or colby??